Scarry: you're not an ice queen!! You're just a strong independent woman, and that's great!! Be proud of that!
I wish I could be more firm from time to time But hey, I'm working on it!! I'm trying to be more assertive this year and it's getting better little by little (even my boss himself said to me that they didn't need to teach me how to be assertive, because I already am… lol
)… But sexual comments from my boss are still difficult to handle…
shakzee, I honestly never saw myself as above but thanks, and u know what u are as strong and have the willpower to ensure that
this situation is resolved in the way it should, just do as I say, and I promise u the man will NEVA eva think of making any sexual
( or other) advances towards u…if he does, then I will come on over to da Netherlands an kick his a$$, coz no one messes with my love ones…that my deary is
Scarry's promise 😉 ..
its not comfortable at all when u are subjected to verbal abuse like u mention, but u need to speak up sweety….FIRMLY
Hahahaha, afraid you'll get hit too??
Waaaaat?? nope not da Ness I knw lol
dnt say anything Boo, coz its da truth nah…;-)
btw, u dont know how I do WHAT???
Kavz, u did a great job, I didnt understand a bit of what u said lol
wn we youngsters can understand this then y the elders cant
My dear its sad when we as the ***youth*** cant accept each other, love each other for who we are, regardless
of religion, race, WATEVA…pisses me off I tell u
as for the elders, hon, its the way in which they have been brought up, an old boring belief of segregration
anywayz, my way of thinking is dat if we **the young ones*** can change the perception of an elder to becoming more
open-minded towards differences, then heck, at least some sanity is restored in society r8…
Nessa:
Scar face:
Neva tasted this, is it lekker Ness??
Burfee is an Indian sweet hmmm like Ladoo, but off coz a different type with different ingredients
damn I gotta lota cooking an bakin to do when u visit lol….u have to taste em..
to me dis tastes nice but only when am in the mood 😉
Yup Reeses PB Cookies are sort of chocolate cookie cake & peanut butter dipped in chocolate. Mmmmmmmm!
All this talk of chocolate is reminding me of DH!
Oh yeah, u need to get ur cauldron..oops, I mean cooking pots ready for me! lmao
I will b bak wud my comments on dis lol
Shakalaka Baby:
Jeeeejjjj!!! The person above me is not upset with me!!!You're too sweet Scarry!!!!
(oh I forgot… you're not sweet but hot & spicy… lol
)
okies dnt wanna be spicy anymore, my ulcers are crakin again lmao
sooo just HOT will do hahahaha
[Hhhmmm, I'm not sure about that… I mean, what he said was disgusting, but he is okay (for a boss )… Just as long as he's not making any se.xual comments about me
And thank God he's just saying things, not doing anything physically!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe I should invite all you guys to kick and hit him Thanks for the support sweeties!!!
You're not???? I remember some posts in another thread…
Take your time sweety… I know you will when you've got the time
the whole sexual advances makes me think he is disgusting yaar lol
I dnt care if she is dog luver, soooo wat>> u treat woman like specimens of meat so me wont have very high
opinion on ye…simple as dat…
naaah am seriously not violent but have decided to take **self defence *** lessons after my near, almost missed mugging last weekend
soooo maybe sum practising wont hurt nah…
My posts were errr were posted when in anger and high emotion sweety SERIOUSLY..me wont even hurt an A$$
like yr boss man lol
mmmwah, lotza hugz from em my darling
Nessa:
person above me is a sweetheart!
Don't want to hit ur boss, but would love to come along to watch the others!
PERSON ABOVE MOI…LMAO ooooh was listening to Hey mama, black eyes peas, and thought of ye lol
cant find the damn lyrics …sending u lotza luw hun, hugz and more luw, u are the bestest…truly
thanks for everything ..am not gonna elaborate here but u knw…. take it easy and MAIN HOON NA….
Annnnnd person above me, do I NOW have permission to sing out loudly …dats wat friends are for…
or do u think my voice will crak everything it touches???????????? huh ?? huh?? huh??? LUV U SWEETY, will chat lt8
kavita_0026:
he is the headmaster of hogwarts (their school ) !!!!!!!!!!
k, but am still in a dwalll lol
gossamer has the whole collection of H/P dvds sooo must re-watch em ..sowrie hun
btw, hope yr paper went well????
whens the next one ???
No problem, alie. Now I too have to say sorry hun, coz I've not had the time to reply to yours… I promise I'll do it soon, alright?
Do I have to read it in sequence? Can I like skip the first book and jump straight to the 2nd? Because I'm having trouble finding 1st to die!
, Sam's Letters to Jennifer. It's a very sweet romance book. And it's really moving in the later part of the story… A very fast read. And that comment is coming from a not-so-fast reader! I think I'll have to go with his Suzanne's Diary for Nicholas, and maybe The Jester next! Thanks for recommending him, hun. I absolutely appreciate his short chapters because I usually need to take a break every few pages… That's the problem of having a short attention span when reading!
Heya hun
1stly purleeez, take yr time, okies…hope things are going well with u…
Yeah I suggest u read it in sequence coz its seriously betta that way…wait a bit until u get 1st degree, it wud be worth it, I promise…
wish I cud send my copy to u ….damn, damn , damn….lemme figure out sums on this one ok
I read suzannes diary for N, luvely luvely luvely
in fact my fwend I were talking the other n8 about how beautiful and touching this novel is.. u will love it for sure…and the JESTER
my its an amazing book, well I tend to go into this world when i read sooo its like basically living within that time sooo to me it was lovely..
Yeah gossamer was telling me the exact same thing, that he has over 100 chapters ( have neva noticed this before ) in all his novels
and its great coz she cant read for long periods as well…ME?? lol I cant put the book down, meaning I will walk around reading,
oblivious to whateva is happening …hahahaha
Sams letters to Jennifer?? hmmm how did i miss that…lol
okies u must let me know once u finish those novels okies…
Nessa:
Shakalaka Baby:
Hahahaha, your post really gave me a good laugh!!!Thanks so much for cheering me up Nessa ji!!!
That was just what I needed…
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Glad I could make you smile sweets!
Just keep that mental picture (karmic foot to the grill) when you feel powerless!
lmao, oh my ..Yuk Ness and damage her pointed heels in the process , naaaaha
not worth the effort I tellya lol
I know I know… but it was just joking at that moment
I have that with a colleague (male) of mine too… But in that way, it's okay
Thanks for all your good advice Scarry!!! You're the best!! Wow, nobody will mess with you I guess… They're probably to afraid you'll sue them
Sweety, I knw u were joking and I knw it was reflex but Men are Men, u bludy casually luk at em and they think u want to
go ski naked with em or sums lol…oh my did i just type that lmao sum more
Anyways, I want to be more detailed but will talk to u sooon ok, hopefully this weekend
just take it easy hun and am sowrie if I came off a lil rude or abrupt okies 😉
Well, I dnt give or try not to give any1 a chance to mess wud me hun..I remember when I first started in this company ..( in durbs )
I was warned about the crazee men, ( ERIC INCLUDED ) right, then a month or so later, this man made a pass at me over the phone, I went over to him
and gave him a loooooooooooooooooong lecture about respect and harrasment bla bla bla, we now have a lovely working
relationship…and no one else even bothered to make a pass at me after that one lol…
I am craze for sure but hate it when one person disrespects another like wats happening with u…
I wont sue anyone coz I dnt need to, its all about attitude, I may be an ice queen to all but I rather be that than have
a zillion men thinking I am easy, I will thump them soooo hard, they will faint and wake up thinking they are monkies or
jack a$$es which isnt far from the truth …..sooooooooooo NO no suing or violence, just plain words for me…
MY HAIRS FALLING GUYZ
seriously frikking crazeeee but by the end of the damn month
I will be bald like Britney smears, now common help this chick try and figure out
sum ***keeping her hair intact*****solutions
i need sum brainstorming to be done and ADVISE soooooooooooon before
I also lose my nerve, have a fit and collapse with kidney failure or sums
just as drastic…
okies dat said, was helping Gossamer paint her hair red last n8
shes such a loser, she knows fiery RED is Scarry's color lol
it goes with my temper hahahaha but she still went with RED…hhmmmmmph
anywayz she was tellin me dat I have really nice hair and its full bla bla bla
I tell u …she jinxed my damn hair coz this morning when I got outa the bath
my hair was falling ….FALLLINGGGG
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh…its still falling, like the damn leaves of the trees outside…
autumn …hmmm maybe its coz its autumn here????
aaand then I am soooo damn lazy u knw, so I leave it all curly an unruly and get really
pissed off when people tell me its soooo cute like dat>…………………. pleeeeesh
imagine this, yr hair all bouncy with curls, everytime u move it does a jig, dancing
to its own tunes, and it irritates the owner coz its all ova da place, soooo me will keep it all
pinned from now onwards, or just blowed straight like one of em
funeral parlour people, with full black, straight hair, luking like they just came
out from the grave themselves…..
Sooooo my fwends u can see MOI is losing it…give me sum hair solutions QUICK
Gossamer doesnt wanna braid my hair, me is not liking her much for that
she says its not ethnic enuf lmao
What did you say about me in the other thread?
Take care Ali… no rush!
***************SIGH***********************
To the former: I'm cool. Very tired. Will contact you later Scar-zilla! lmao I like this name!
To the latter: Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy wwhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?!?!?!?! rotflmbobo!
Im luwin da name by the min as well Ness but Nuthin …NUTHING
beats Mama al roflmao
I luw da cute lil pett names u keep for every1 lol
as for Nitzkar….Roflmao I WAS BORED hahahahaha…but me still Lurwes him
hes just HOT..nah ?? lmao
cant believe da things I type here, imagine if my hubby had to read all of this
He will DIE of shock nah
Okies maybe if I am fed up with da dude, I shall introduce him to dis plek hahahaha
He has??? I guess I did miss something Scarry…
yup u did hun lol ..mmmwah, hope u alrite and smilin??
Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend.
beautiful: ****sigh*****
Yeh kiski hai aahat, yeh kiska hai saaya
*** dil mein dastak yahan kaun aaya
Hum pe yeh kisne hara rang daala
Oh, hum pe yeh kisne hara rang daala
Khushi ne hamaari hamein maar daala, oh maar daala
Maar daala, haan maar daala
Hum pe yeh kisne hara rang daala
Khushi ne hamaari hamein maar daala
Hamein maar daala, hamein maar daala, hamein
Maar daala, maar daala, maar daala, maar daala
(Allah, allah, allah)
Na chaand hatheli par sajaaya
Na taaron se koi bhi rishta banaaya
Na rab se bhi koi shikaayat ki
Na rab se bhi koi shikaayat ki
Har gham ko humne chhupaaya
Har sitam ko haske uthaaya
Kaanton ko bhi gale se lagaaya
Aur phoolon se zakhm khaaya
Haan magar dua mein jab yeh haath uthaaya
Oh haan magar dua mein jab yeh haath uthaaya
Khuda se dua mein tumhein maang daala, oh maang daala
Allah, maang daala, allah, maang daala, oh
(Hum pe yeh kisne hara rang daala
Khushi ne hamaari hamein maar daala)
Hamein maar daala, hamein maar daala, hamein
Maar daala, maar daala, maar daala, maar daala
(Allah, allah, allah)
Maar daala, oh maar daala, maar daala ho maar daala
Maar daala, maar daala, maar daala, maar daala
(Yeh kiski hai aahat, yeh kiska hai saaya
*** dil mein dastak, yahan kaun aaya)
Hey eh, eh eh eh
Mm mm mm mm mm, mm mm mm mm mm mm