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It wouldn't be hard to believe, Tayba is superly beautiful.

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Person above me is pretty!

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Lmao! You want a piece of me KwaZulu? You want a piece of me? Come and get it.

LMAO! No, dude, she wants the whole thing.

LMAO. LMAO. LMAO

Ya Allah. I need to stop laughing so much.

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Kavita – I promised him I wouldn't fight, so long as he doesn't provoke me…so put ur pom poms down.

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lol I sure hope so jaan….. dua mai yaad rakna.

yes lets attack the island dude. Get ready im flyin over 2 pick u up n then we head out

I love you.

You know, tera bhi tadap kar aayega aur tujhe bhi mil jaayega hun.

You are always in my duas.

I was all ready with my belan and dande, you never showed up.

Love you too.

*sigh* I really hope so…just make dua.

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I love to dream . I know what reality is though. Doesn't mean I can't dream though does it? Sigh

ME TOO! I'm a complete day dreamer. I'm always smiling, and people are like, “What's funny?” And i'm like, “Nothing.” lol. When my uncle came to visit us from London, he was like, “This girl thinks too much.” lol. “Sapne dekho, zaroor dekho, bas unki pure hone ki shart mat rakhna.” (Is that how it went?) I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE this line from DDLJ… *sigh*

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cuz we're sistaz <3 and oh so cool . Oh yes, I have a list of many fictional characters that I just love. I think Harry Potter may be on my list soon .

lol. Super cool. UGH! I don't know why people love Harry Potter. I read one chapter from one of the books, put it down, and never picked it up again! lol. I love the guy from Cathcer in the Rye. I forgot his name though. lol. And there are more, I just can't remember them now…

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• I forgive very easily – What a beautiful quality you have jaan.

  I think I get it from my mom.

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• I love to read. – me too! me too!

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• I'm super curious. – lmao, I love it when you're curious. Your like this cute jumping bunny rofl.

  LMAO! A bunny!??! HAHA! one day, Hayati was talking to me, she was telling me something serious, and I was just listening quietly, and she's like, “What happened to curious Rani?” (sentence sounds better with my real name. lol.)

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about not being able to accept compliments, I have seen that!! You muppet!!!!!!! You should accept them!! Don't be so hard on yourself hunn! .

shush it. I'm not hard on myself.

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Ranz! my msn is playing up now too. grrr! aw u liked the pics? thankies! Uni starts for me on Sept 19th, I think. During Ramadan. Uni is so hard during Ramadan lol.

lol, you're calling me Ranz too! hehe. Yes, I loved the pics. I'll tell you which one was my favorite in the email. Uni is hard during Ramadhan? Really? School is so much fun during Ramadhan for me! The day pas.ses by really fast! I like fasting during school days. It's harder if I'm not going to school. lol. It's just funny cuz when I'm doing my homework, I like to kinda distract myself by eating, and I can't eat if I'm fasting, so homework gets realllllly boring! lol.

One day, I was on the forum from the library at school, and I got caught. lol. The lady hekka likes me though, so she just told me not to do it again, but I still do! lol. And I'm gonna be doing it more often this year, Inshallah, cuz I don't have a 6th period!

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P.S. The funny thing about the pay phone in London was that it gave me back the coin I used to call my dad! I was like, “COOL!” lol.

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I dont know if they know thta I love them this much

I'm sure they do. But if you really don't think so, then tell them. I always tell my mom I love her. I sneak up on her, hug her, give her a kiss, and say I LOVE YOU! lol. Or if we're sitting down, I sit next to her and put my arm around her. My dad gets jealous! LMAO! He's like, “stop hugging ur mom, ur not a lil girl anymore.” And I'm like, “You're just jealous” And he just laughs. lol. Or if I'm going to bed and my parents are sitting together, I'm like, “Good night! I love you!” My mom always says “I love you too” But my dad doesn't. lol.

I remember when we were going to Pakistan and Afghanistan a few years back, we didn't go with my dad. It was me, my sis, my mom, my twin, and my lil bro. And my dad was soooooooo worried. He told me, “As soon as you get off the plane at every stop, CALL ME!” I'm like okay okay! lol. And It was sooooooooooooo hilarious! When we stopped in London, I went to the pay phone to call him, and before he hung up, he said, “Take care bachchu(it means child). I love you.” I was so shocked I didn't say anything in return. And I hung up and told my mom, “Mom, dad said I love you to me!” And she starts laughing like I'm crazy and says, “Of course he loves you. He told you all the time. He just stopped telling you recently.” And I'm like why? She just shrugs and says, “Everyone has their own way of showing their love.”

And Kavita, if you really can't tell them, then show them. Obey them, listen carefully when they talk to you, do special things for them when they don't expect it. They'll know.

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okay nevermind, I have to leave! bye tayba and Kavita!

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Tayba – I'm on! sign on! I have like 20 mins. before the library computer signs me off. so jaldi kar! lol.

School? Summer school was finished long ago. School will start on Sep. 4 I think. So no more logging onto the forum everyday.

I saw the pics! I LOVED all of them! And I loved your lil story! And I will email you, I promise! lol. And I have tons to ask you! lol.

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Its strange. I love my parents to death but I cant even tell them that.

That you love them? That's not bad. You're parents know you love them, whether you tell them or not. But if you would like to tell them, then I suggest you try. And try talking to them more often.

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lol. Kavita, I know that. I have tons of friends who date and most of them don't sleep together. But some do. It depends on the individuals.

But I know for a fact that flirting/touching happens between couples.

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I'm in the library right now and the computers here are super slow. So it's taking ages to load, and once it does load, there is an error. It won't work! I had to write the post in the “let ur feelings out” thread for Kavita 3 times! It wouldn't let me post it! So I had to do it again and again. I saved it on Word after the second time. lol. and it finally let me post it. Stupid computer.

I just saw jasmine a couple of minutes ago! lol. She came to the library and when I saw her, I was like “JASMINE!” lol. i didn't say jasmine, I said her real name, but u get the point. lol. I hadn't seen her since my party cuz she went out of state for vacation.

anyhow, how are you two?

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Kavita – i know it's hard to talk to your parents, but try befriending them. It will be easier to talk to them that way.

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So, you're meaning to say that its okay if you go to your parents and say that you want to get married , they agree, then its fine?

It's absolutely okay in Islam.

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so you girls dont have boyfriends .. okay dont answer that i mean..not you girls! i mean..muslim girls – its wrong if they have them? alright flirting is a no no i hate those things too but…isnt it okay if its your fiance lol

lol. I don't have a boyfriend, Alhamdulillah. It's just as wrong for a Muslim girl to have a boyfriend as it is for a Muslim boy to have a girlfriend.

My culture allows a boy and girl to flirt if they are engaged. But there is no such thing as engagement in islam. It's not wrong to be engaged, but engagement leads to sinning. For example, most people sleep with their to-be-wife or to-be-husband simply because they are engaged. But what happens if one of them decides to break off the engagement? So no touching/flirting allowed till you are married.

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• I have a hard time accepting compliments.

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awww, thank you. I just hope Kavita will think the same.

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• I forgive very easily.
• I love to read.
• I'm super curious.

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Walaykum Salaam TAYBAAAAAA! Go on MSN! I'm getting on!!!!!! whoooooo hoooooooo! i missed you!

Walaykum Kavita! what it do?

(Hehe. I miss nessa)

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You can get married after the age of puberty:this is meaning you can get married over 12-13 yr of age right?

Well, everyone is different. We don't all grow at the same pace. A friend of mineis 17, and still no sign of puberty. So it depends on the individual.

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“If you like a guy, its not sinful” > What do you mean by 'like' here? Just looking at him and having a crush or really liking him even to the point where future engagement may be considered?

Yeah…it can be a crush, it can be an infatuation, it can be love…And when you want to get married to someone, you go to your parents and tell them. simple. It's just that cultures get in the way. In my culture, I could never go up to my parents and tell them I want to get married to a certain guy. Maybe I could tell my mom because she is so open-minded…but my dad…no way. lol. And in my culture, if someone tells his/her parents that he/she wants to get married, they think you can't wait to get in bed. Cultures are so annoying, I wish they didn't exist. lol

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“What you do with him could be sinful” > What exactly is sinful that you can do with him? You[or Ninja] said that no touching/no dating before marriage. How then can you know if you like the guy? Im good with the no touching, but are you allowed to at least get to talk to him and to know hime better?

You don't need to touch a guy in order to see if you love him or not.

And about the talking…you aren't supposed to talk to him alone. You can talk to him if you have a chaperone with you. i'm sure that you know if a guy and girl get together and talk, at one point or another, they will discuss intimate things, and flirt. Flirting is a no-no.

For example, a friend of mine was talking to her finace on the phone and he said to her, “I can't wait to tear off your clothes.” That is definitely not allowed.

I hope I'm making sense? I'm horrible at explaining things.

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Tayba – we have a lot in common, hunn. especially about loving fictional characters! lol.

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