[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

Can love fail? I don't think so. the reason I am not positive is because I have never experienced love. But, I do believe in love.

I don't think that it is love that makes us unhappy, I think it is the situation that makes us feel how we do.

boo:

… but when love brings you more pain than pleasure, is really 'love' doing so?

I think it is your expectations of love that give you the pain.

boo:

If people hurt you so much, then it can only be because you gave them your heart, right?

Right. But not right when it concerns general situations. Like some random stranger on the street can say something to you and hurt you, but that doesn't mean you gave them your heart…

boo:

If I find a guy I love, with all my heart, I will let him know so. At the same time, if I find ANOTHER guy whom I love with all my heart, I will let him know so too.

errr…I want to believe that that is not possible.

boo:

Whether I am being 'unfaithful', or a 'player', or whether I am confused as to whom I see as a friend and whom I see as a lover – all this means nothing to me.

There is no reason whatsoever why I should not be free to love whom I please, when I please… why should we be bound down by 'rules' of 'society'?

You would really do that? goodness! I won't even be able to tell one!

But…what if you hurt both of the guys? Tell them both, “I love you,” and they both end up falling in love with you(if they don't already) and then, at the end, you decide you know which one it is that you truly love and say ba-bye to the one you don't…won't it hurt the guy? Or what if you decide you love a whole new guy and leave both of the first guys? wow.

boo:

Shakalaka Baby:

Boo… now you're talking about love in a friendship way, I was talking about love in a really true love way… Of course some other guy can have a special place in my heart, but I will never tell that person I love him… I will tell him he's a great friend and so on, but the only person I say “I love you” to, is the one I'm together with… In my case my b/f… I can not really love two persons and be together with one…

would you do so with a girl? why should it be any different if it is a guy? isn't love the one and same thing?

eugh…ur confusing me…are you saying the love you feel for a guy is the same as the love you feel for a friend or family? Cuz if you are, I dissagree. Love is love. But that doesn't mean you love everybody the same way. Your love for different people is different.

But let me remind you, I have never been in love, so yeah…