#57289
Shakalaka Baby
Participant
boo:

If you love someone, you love them. And that is all there is to it.

If I find a guy I love, with all my heart, I will let him know so. At the same time, if I find ANOTHER guy whom I love with all my heart, I will let him know so too.

Whether I am being 'unfaithful', or a 'player', or whether I am confused as to whom I see as a friend and whom I see as a lover – all this means nothing to me.

At the same time, lol, I want to clarify that I never have been a player, and never will be a player (well, in all honesty, who knows what the future holds… but as far as 'now' is concerned…)… I will know where my priorities lie… I know my heart will guide me.

I agree love doesn't have to be guide by political rules or something, but there are borders… You're really honest if you tell the second person too that you love him, but would you tell the other about it too? Honesty can also be really painfull and bring you in difficult and nasty situations… Does that really mean nothing to you? I really couldn't do that…

You say your heart will guide you, but what if your heart is confused and wants to go in two directions? Which way do you choose?